to want my friend to come to MY house?

[nikkie]

friend lives near work which is 10 miles from my house (we work together) , she is single, no kids, has a car (I only got mine end of last year) and always says
"why don't you come to my house tonight?"
" Come to mine for a glass of wine"
Last week she phoned me up and said if you are passing today call in I am just at X beach(2 miles away) and will be home in 1/2 hour"

In the last 5 years she has been to mine about 7 times.

AIBU if I get annoyed?

No

Do you ever invite her?

Is your house as nice as hers?

Always asking her, always saying noone visits me!
She always expects me to go out drinkning near her too and if I do I end up driving/not drinking/getting pissed off but she won't come to me because it costs too much for a taxi home

It would be rude to invite herself to yours. Maybe you should do the same and it will be more even