I am a Sah to 3DC. Since the DC were born I have done some self employed work it since Dd3 came along this fizzled as dh life didn't really change. Only my workload increase.
Do now Dd3 is at preschool I decided to take some free courses to improve my confidence in readiness for returning to work once Dd starts school
Dh has been largely uninterested. He didn't even comment when one of my tutors praised a piece of work I did. Or even know when I sat one of the exams. When I told him his response was what exam?.
Cue my latest exam. Paper 1 was incredibly difficult and he knew this .his initial plan was to take kids away so I could revise it peace. Unfortunately a better offer came along do he told one day off to go to a convention leaving me with Kids. The other day was pretty much spent have g a family meal out and him pudding off to do his own thing again.
We got a chance to talk St the weekend and I pointed out that I was disappointed that I wasn't able to have more child free time to revise. He barely commented and nothing has changed.
Yesterday he returned from work and basically did his own thing as per usual despite me making it clear I was doing a past paper and how difficult it was to concentrate
HE than went on to say that he has a job and qualifications do he didn't need to worry about such things.
I was shocked an didn't respond .
So AIBU to be hurt and angry about his lack of support. His selfishness seems to reached a whole new level.