After some nightmare play dates, some interesting and frankly weird parent debates I've finally realised that this woman and her child weren't our friends and cut them out and I feel so much happier!
Made the decision after a rubbish trip to the park with them last week and told "friend" that it wasn't working and not to contact us again
I have vented lots on here about in versions threads and been told on more than one occasion to get some new friends and I have followed that advice and I feel so much lighter
So thanks :)