I'd just been doing weight watchers on and off for years and I'd easily lose a stone, then start to yoyo. It was always craving biscuits and choc. I'd previously stopped smoking and gone veggie by myself yet found my chocoholic tendencies a real addiction. I decided that I had to face that if I was ever going to lose weight. I read a book on it with a lot of science of why sugar is hugely addictive, can't remember the name, but Paul McKenna's book says it much simpler. Then I just stopped. A Facebook page called I Quit Sugar helped a lot, but it suggested limiting carbs and fruit initially, which I didn't do as I know it would be too harsh for me. One of the biggest changes I made was ditching all diet and low fat things - yoghurt, drinks, spreads and having butter instead. I eat a ton of full fat Greek yoghurt almost daily with grapes or berries, which seems to be my filling lifesaver. I don't eat meat, so I've eaten curries, chillies, ratatouilles, pesto, salads - with potatoes, pasta, rice or cous cous. Big portions too, I'm an outdoor girl, can't live on tiny meals. Tonight we had a huge frittata with feta, peas red onions and cherry toms in it and potato wedges. I've kept a diary of everything I've eaten good and bad. When I've gone out or away I've eaten what I've wanted and drunk what I wanted, perhaps once a week/10 days. I'm cabin crew, so have managed around hotel food and travel too.
I guess it doesn't feel like a diet/feels different this time because there's no rules/plan/points/syns and no daily limit, so no guilt at having "blown it". I didn't lose weight for the first three weeks, but immediately lost a good inch or two from my waist and stomach, so it kept me going. I just feel in control of myself for the first time in decades. It feels good, and when I do have something sugary it tastes too sweet. I've still got just over 2 stone to lose, but it feels doable and sounds better than the 4 stones I needed to lose in January.