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To think MNHQ should remove the [hmm]

148 replies

BadTasteFlump · 25/05/2017 20:22

We're frequently being reminded that MN is a 'forum for support' and there is nothing supportive about this face Hmm

OP posts:
SarahGraceMc · 25/05/2017 20:53

Hmm this one Bear and Easter Smile I could live without though

DomJolyNurse · 25/05/2017 20:56

Support is not accepting everything however dubious/questionable.

KnockMeDown · 25/05/2017 20:57

I think the Hmm is excellent - it conveys so much so succinctly. I often wish it was one of the FB like thingys.

CrispyBathTowel · 25/05/2017 20:59

I agree OP. I hate Hmm - he/she looks like a sneery little fecker.

Slightlyperturbedowlagain · 25/05/2017 21:01
Hmm
JanetBrown2015 · 25/05/2017 21:03

I don't look at those picture things and I don't even know what they mean never mind that one looks unsupportive. It has all b lown over my head.

paxillin · 25/05/2017 21:04

I quite like using it for "My DS just used my up lipstick drawing a spiderman face on himself Hmm"

I hate people quoting others on a thread and using it, it is so passive aggressive. My favourite is Confused, that sums up my response to a lot of things on here and in RL Grin.

TheSnowFairy · 25/05/2017 21:05

"DH fishes his dirty pants out of the washing basket, as he says the dirt drops off after a while " Hmm

Surely Envy (vom) instead?

Eolian · 25/05/2017 21:05

Of course YABU. It is clearly down to context, as proved upthread. And the other emojis can also be used unpleasantly - a passive agressive Smile for example, or a Biscuit. You can swear like a trooper on MN but not use a Hmm face?! In any case, people are perfectly capable of being very unpleasant without using any emojis at all. So, would banning it make people stop being mean? Nope. Anyway I like it - it's my favourite emoji.

Oblomov17 · 25/05/2017 21:08

One of my favourites.
I use them in this order of preference, I think:
Wink
Hmm
Grin

Crabcanon · 25/05/2017 21:09

I love it. It's very useful. I have a similar one on my phone but it's a bit more puzzled looking and has a finger propped under the chin which makes it even more uncertain looking. It's my most used emoji. It's perfect for anything I don't understand, or am wondering about or is a bit puzzling etc.

Butteredparsnip1ps · 25/05/2017 21:10

It's nearly my favourite emoji too. But then I have a sense of irony.

BuzzKillington · 25/05/2017 21:10

Noooo! I love it Hmm

ShatnersBassoon · 25/05/2017 21:10

It's the one that's most like my face. It would be discriminatory to say that it's unsupportive.

Popskipiekin · 25/05/2017 21:11

Is this the equivalent emoji on the phone? 🤔 It has a hmm look about it! Just not half as scathing!

LottieDoubtie · 25/05/2017 21:13

I too wish Hmm was around on my phone not just on MN, I'd be very sad to see it go.

Confused should also be sold to apple Grin missing a trick MN?

Pumperthepumper · 25/05/2017 21:16

I would ban '....much?' as in 'hysterical much?' just because it's so shit and almost as cringy a comeback as 'did you mean to be so rude?'

And this one Grin because it's also shit.

WhatToDoAboutThis2017 · 25/05/2017 21:18

YABU. You can't just censor anything that isn't deemed supportive.

That's where trouble starts, something ridiculously small like that. It's a long and slippery road.

PhilODox · 25/05/2017 21:19

Hmm is my default expression!
How very dare you!

fortifiedwithtea · 25/05/2017 21:21

YABU . Hmm is the perfect face for the Small Pets section. Guinea pig owners use it to describe the judgey faces their pets give them if they dare to give them new food, new bedding , new anything. Guinea pigs are suspicious of anything new Grin

FanjoForTheMammaries · 25/05/2017 21:22

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Instasista · 25/05/2017 21:22

I love the hmmm

Good for when people are being dim

eelbecomingforyou · 25/05/2017 21:26

I love the Hmm face! So appropriate for so many situations...

Polter · 25/05/2017 21:28

I love the Hmm face and wish my real face could convey so much hmminess

SleightOfHand · 25/05/2017 21:28

I don't have the poo emoji, that's what I'm Sad about. Needed that today for something as well. Hmm