Ok I have limited time two days off a week in a busy work schedule.
I agreed to take a "friend + child" to a class once a week as I was going there as well. Both children attend said class, it's at a bad time for me as I need to get back for my other child. Who has a class later after school. Which has a adverse affect if I am late back. Which can frequently happen.
Also as I have limited time off to deal with other stuff my days off are precious and a mid afternoon class cuts my day up. Also as I have to pick the other mum at curtails where I can go in the morning. So I have to stay localish, as I have a set time to pick them up if I am late 5-10 mins ( children are unpredictable at times and normally the cause) I get frowned at.
Other mum is very unflexable, and child has rigid routine, so going out with her for the morning would not be possible then to class.
Other mum can drive but has no car, but can get to class by other means.
I feel judged by this mum a lot, who is a SAHM, I know both ways are not easy.
AIBU to say I can no longer do this? Or just go with my child as I can make it work with my time constraints ?