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Buying a house

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HomeDesire2017 · 21/05/2017 08:57

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Morning all

Just looking to get some opinions and DP and I are divided...

Background: We're currently engaged with a baby. We live together in a rented property and have done for 2 years. DP is a teacher and I'm a student.
We'd be using the help to buy deposit scheme.

Option 1: Put off wedding and focus on getting a house asap. We could get a small 2 bedroom house with a low mortgage quite easily. Lose £500 wedding venue deposit but be better off financially each month.

Option 2: Get married next year (we have the money) as planned and wait to buy a house until we're both earning (2.5 years). We'll have a combined income of 50k+ and will be able to afford a decent sized 4 bedroom house.

Which option is most reasonable?

OP posts:
Kokusai · 21/05/2017 12:12

Need not

Plumkettle · 21/05/2017 12:16

Personally I would choose:

Marriage (registry)

House

Fuck off big party/wedding/vow renewal when we're earning loads

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