i do the food shop and do it in advance. had to freeze three things of fish. husband cancelled a night out saturday as we had a row over it. he wants all control over spending as he says i cant manage it properly. i get the bare minimum.
he really isn't interested in me any more is he, i had to beg for the dinner date and agreed to texting him a grocery list on wednesdays so no more waste but he is going back to his mothers every weekend from now on.
i had the baby sitter booked and everything and had him talked around.
my pride is really hurt by having to placate and beg - he is like this since we had children.
he earns 160,000 a year.