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AIBU DH has lied by omission...

142 replies

Fartootiredtobeawake · 17/05/2017 20:43

A bit of background first, DH and I have been together since Uni, for 20 years, we have one DD toddler (3 years old).

Today when we went shopping and were browsing the aisles, DH picked up MARMITE and said 'ooh, I fancy getting this and having it in toast'. I flipping hate the stuff, in 20 years he has never eaten the stuff, that I am aware and now sudden he wants it. I told him I feel betrayed that he never told me he eats this, and worse of all he gave some to DD who also ate it.

Should I LTB?

OP posts:
anotherpoisonprince · 20/05/2017 14:06

Lana that sounds fecking amazing. I'm going t'shop for Marmite now.

CherieBabySpliffUp · 20/05/2017 14:18

Debenhams sell Marmite chocolate at Christmas, tis lovely Grin

Jux · 20/05/2017 15:22

Music I think we have something in common Grin

Lana, when I get off my health kick and stop eating Flavoured Air for breakfast, I'm doing that!

MusicToMyEars800 · 20/05/2017 15:51

I have got hankering cravings for Marmite now, and my arsehole OH finished off my jar Hmm have put a very large jsr in my shopping basket to be delivered next week Grin I can't wait!

CraftyMummyof3Tiddlers · 20/05/2017 16:05

Vegemite is superior ...Marmite is rank😝 3 kids and 2 like Vegemite 😀 Hubby hates the stuff..too bad lol
They do not taste similar yukkkk.

Beerwench · 20/05/2017 16:08

Want marmite on toast now.

YANBU

Confiscate all marmite immediately to eradicate this awful disgustingness. I do hope dd hasn't been contaminated!
then send all confiscated marmite to me for ahem, destruction
Grin

MsGemJay · 20/05/2017 16:25

Bahahaha! I was expecting so much worse than this. So he had a secret marmite fancy. I wish my daughter loved it too

Bettyswaggler · 20/05/2017 16:36

Shocked and appalled. Props to you for not leaving his lying, disgusting marmite eating freak in the shopping aisle GrinGrin
Never mention the marmite to the child again....

HookandSwan · 20/05/2017 17:01

Eww 😷 LTB!!! Lol

JessicaEccles · 20/05/2017 17:01

Like all 60s babies, I was brought up on marmite on toast soldiers.

But the best are Marmite crisps god I will have to go out to the shop now

gillybeanz · 20/05/2017 17:05

I think you show him this thread and hope he realises the damage he is causing.

Mummyoflittledragon · 20/05/2017 18:21

Shocked and appalled.. Too right I'm shocked and appalled! I think you hid your disgust for the stuff and he's the one betrayed!!! ConfusedGrin

moreslackthanslick · 20/05/2017 20:51

Mmmm marmite! Marmite spaghetti with grated cheese! It's a Nigella recipe!

MusicToMyEars800 · 20/05/2017 22:03

more YY. God bless our Nigella for that one!! it's the best.

WheresYouWheelieBin · 20/05/2017 22:59

YANBU! If it was Vegemite I would leap to his defence, but Marmite is utterly rank.

outabout · 20/05/2017 23:18

Marmite and cheese on jacket potato / bread roll?
Wanted to like Vegemite but somehow disappointed.

Amiable · 20/05/2017 23:24

Hang on, you say you want to leave him because he has finally got the courage together to admit his true feelings to you?! It sounds to me as if he would be well shot if you, you marmite hating harridan Angry I think you should have a long hard look at yourself, I suspect you will not like what you see! And as for your DD, the poor mite, her father has shown her the light and all you can do is try to squash her dreams. Well I never! YABVVVVVU Shock Wink Grin

(OK, I might have to admit to having a marmite smothered tongue firmly in cheek!)

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