AIBU DH has lied by omission...

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A bit of background first, DH and I have been together since Uni, for 20 years, we have one DD toddler (3 years old).

Today when we went shopping and were browsing the aisles, DH picked up MARMITE and said 'ooh, I fancy getting this and having it in toast'. I flipping hate the stuff, in 20 years he has never eaten the stuff, that I am aware and now sudden he wants it. I told him I feel betrayed that he never told me he eats this, and worse of all he gave some to DD who also ate it.

Should I LTB?

I like it on hot, buttered toast.

I thought I hated it till I was in my 30s, having been put off it as a child by my mum's usual trick of slathering on any sort of spread half an inch thick.

You really can't do that with Marmite

love marmite.
hubby loves marmite
such a happy and proud day when discovered my ds loves marmite too
mmmmm, marmite on hot buttered toast :)

wasp spunk

OP Is he trying to put you off snogging?

DH loves his marmite. I love Cenovis

half and half bread, butter and Cenovis. Camembert, and Cenovis... And pickles! Yum. You're making me really hungry!!

YABVU! Marmite is awesome and my dp agrees with me.

I buy 2 jars at a time and write our names on the lid, DP is not allowed to use my jar as he doesn't clean his knife between buttering his toast and dipping into the jar, leaving butter and toast crumbs on the surface. My marmite jar is pristine and clean. I eat it straight from the jar on a teaspoon and on buttered pasta.

I feel your pain. After 16 years together, I found out that DH loves Marmite. I'm still not over the betrayal. He was slightly surprised when I told him that had I known about his love for the yeasty filth then I wouldn't have married him.

I wish I could eat marmite without it going through me like a dose of salts.

KitKat1985, Booshbeesh- marmite mini cheeses sold in nets (find next to the babybels) They are heavenly

PaulDacres, I know, how do you hide something like this for soooo long? Then drop a bombshell.

I honestly don't know how people eat the stuff. He looks so normal.

TheWhiteRoseOfYork

More like wasp spunk

I bow to your greater knowledge and sexual deviancy

Patum peperium for me.

Women and children are specifically excluded.

I literally just ate marmite.
I would struggle with being with someone who detested it

OP I love Marmite so am wondering how on earth he's kept the urge suppressed for 20 years?

Or has he been partaking in secret and decided now is the time to 'come out'?

Thinking of you at this difficult time. .

PigletJohn I'm with you on that. Gentleman's relish!

I think if I start referring to it as wasp spunk DH might be put off.

I really do not want to be feeding it to my DD.

He has just told me his mum put it in gravy. WHAT??? WHY???

I hate marmite itself, but love marmite cheddar.

DJ it's working, if that is his plan. Maybe he should sleep in the spare room until I can get over this betrayal.

OP this is how it starts. Casually mentioning trying different things. Before you know it his tastes will be more perverse. Marmite with cheese on toast, then moving on to avocados before you know it. Pushing it slightly further each time.

Sorry to hear this OP

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Is this for real?

Absolutely Hashtag! Marmite and the love or hate of it is no laughing matter .

Flyinggeese nooo, I hate avocados too.

I feel it is a slippery slope. I'm just so worried about DD. Is she going to start wanting to try all these different things too?

Leave him. Now. Run. He is a liar and you don't know what else he is hiding ..

Also I bet your MIL did this to him. She probably forced it on him as a child and now he has marmite issues ... and the cycle of marmite continues with your DD!!