This is definitely not an AIBU post but I'm posting for traffic.
My aunt is in the later stages of terminal lung cancer. She is 47.
My aunt lives 7 doors away from my nan who is 78.
My nan has become my aunt's carer despite the fact that my aunt was my nan carer before the cancer.
My nan fell over 2 days ago and will not be released from hospital unless she has somebody to care for her.
I have an amazing family. We all look after each other.
My younger sister is going to London tomorrow to care for my nan for 8 weeks whilst my aunt's children care for my aunt.
My sister has a 2 year old who has just started nursery. Will she be able to send him to the local nursery while she is there?
She isn't working at the moment and has recently separated from her partner.
I live in Bristol and will be going to London to help out for a few days in 2 weeks when OH has time off work. I will go to London again in the 6 weeks holidays to help out during the week (I work weekends).
Everybody is doing their best but I don't want DN to miss out on time with his peers if necessary.
And advice would be gratefully received.