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AIBU?

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To think this is creepy?

32 replies

BonnieBeau · 13/05/2017 13:50

A 17 year old woman came & done work experience in my office. My boss' 65 year old colleague met her and, about a year later, slept with her. She now works for the colleague and I think they are still sleeping together.

My colleagues know about this and find it weird but treat him the same as always. I can barely look at him I'm so disgusted. AIBU to think it's beyond sick and creepy for a 65 year to have slept with a girl still at sixth form and think that those of us who know should have the bare minimum to do with him?

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ZilphasHatpin · 13/05/2017 14:54

In 5 years time he could be retired and she could end up with no job and no qualifications.

And at 23 she'll be far too old to put that right won't she? Hmm

CherryMintVanilla · 13/05/2017 14:55

It's repulsive, but as long as she isn't vulnerable and has made her own mind up, it is legal. Gross, but legal.

ZilphasHatpin · 13/05/2017 14:55

It was a fortnight before she turned 18

I find it creepier that you know the exact date two other people started having sex.

Rubies12345 · 13/05/2017 15:00

How do you know they slept together? Sounds like office gossip based on her getting a job she's unqualified for

LaLegue · 13/05/2017 15:02

I would be a bit worried about a girl of 17/18 who wanted to be in a relationship with a man old enough to be her grandfather.

Nocarbsorsugar · 13/05/2017 15:17

I don't really understand what the bloke is getting out of it either. Ok so he may be having sex with someone young but surely putting your age next to all that youth must be depressing. Thinking back to how good you looked at that age. How limited you are before she finds someone younger, fitter, hotter.
And living a life and not being able to share it properly because at 17 she really won't having any understanding of what it used to be like.
Horrible basis for a relationship.

BonnieBeau · 13/05/2017 15:25

I know because she told me.

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