You don't actually have to use the money to pay for care .You could spend it in casinos and a goat and the biggest TV ever if you so wanted to .
Its there to help you with the extra cost of the disability so yes you can buy in care from someone but you don't have to . That's clearly stated on the form and guidance notes .
If that was the case I'm pretty sure the government would have been giving out vouchers for aids
In fact last year this was suggested by the government that anyone who got points for aids could have it replaced with vouchers or not get it all as many of the aids used are often household items that don't come at an extra cost . They have I think put this aside at the moment but there is nothing to stop this coming into place at a future date .
It's is better to aim for points with assistance from another person and not aids as it's quite possible in the future any points awarded for use of aids maybe taken away
PIP assessor have some sort of idea what a disabled persons looks like in there head and if you don't fit the box it's hard to get the points .
They don't understand invisible disabilities like chronic pain Fibroglymia
So if you turn up looking like your not in pain even if you are ,if your appearance isn't matching your disabilities .they will do everything possible to mark you down .
the fact that you appear to do every day stuff like dress , wash , look presentable will be twisted this to say that you can cope and don't need the help .
It's never ever about your disabilities or the illness itself but how it affects you and it states this clearly on the form
So If you wear makeup it shows that you can sit or stand and apply it and you have use of your hands Therefore anything that might award you points for aids for cooking , washing dressing you won't get .
If you drink tea from a cup make sure your clear that it's a disabled mug with the two handles for support and not a standard mug
If you have problems with your hands or mental health problems like anxiety don't shake there hand as this points to you having no problems with your hands and that you have a strong grip .
your problems with your anxiety is seen that as you can shake hands with a stranger , maintain eye contact , hold a conversation you don't have a problem anymore