This happened a few years ago to few workmates before I started and I just learned about it. The offending person has since retired.
Before Christmas the wife of the offending man made chocolate candy in the shape of a penis and wrapped them in cellophane as 'gifts' for all the women. The older women thought it was a lark, etc. but the younger women thought the wife had a screw loose but didn't say anything. Talking to one of my work mates she said she really did think they came from the wife, as she was 'different' (artistic? Eccentric? What?) and made many sexual innuendos during normal conversation.
Nothing was said and it was swept under the carpet.
I thought this so unlikely that the husband would be part of this since he came across as a high and mighty 'religious' sort. I was horrified when I found this out.
Fast forward to me talking about this to a male friend of mine, who also found it a lark and said his mother (in her 80's) was also like this and he just brushed it off as a gag.
WTf?! I surely cannot be the only one that finds this weird, offensive and sexual harrasment! I was sure of it until I talked to my male friend that said that about his mother and made it seem no big deal. I'm in the US (though this surely wouldn't matter would it? Am I BU or