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doodlejump1980 · 08/05/2017 10:26

I'm due to be on the panel for an audition (local arts production) for someone who used to bully me at school. She doesn't know it's going to be me. This is karma isn't it?

OP posts:
CaramelEmporium · 08/05/2017 15:48

Do what feels right for you OP. What goes around comes around.

PollytheDolly · 08/05/2017 15:57

I wanted her to think she meant so little that even her name didn't ring even the tiniest bell, when in actual fact, her behaviour towards me has repercussions even today.

This.

kaitlinktm · 08/05/2017 16:07

I hope she does a really shit audition. Do you get to press a button and she falls down a trap door?

AnyFarrahFowler · 08/05/2017 16:15

Good luck with it, OP. Hope it isn't too unpleasant seeing her again.

Hope you make her squirm Wink

PrancingQueen · 09/05/2017 10:17

Just shout 'NEXT!' very loudly as soon as she steps on the stage Wink

PrancingQueen · 09/05/2017 10:18

Love the trap door exit Grin

TinklyLittleLaugh · 09/05/2017 11:04

Hmm with reference to a post upthread, one of the nastiest lads at my school and two really unpleasant bullying types on my Uni course all joined the Police. I've often wondered if it attracts a certain type.

One of DH's nicest mates is in the Police too and I often wonder if a large percentage of his colleagues are difficult characters and how he deals with it.

TinklyLittleLaugh · 09/05/2017 11:05

You need one of those long shepherds crook type things to hawk her off with.

PollytheDolly · 09/05/2017 17:24

Trap door lol!

I think the biggest payback you can send to her is indifference.

TheWitTank · 09/05/2017 18:12

I (luckily) wasn't bullied at all, but had friends who were and one who was picked on relentlessly by an absolute bitch from hell until she was 16 and left. We saw her out about 10 years after we left school and she came over all smiles and friendliness -we just pretended we hadn't a clue who she was and didn't remember her. Not in a horrible way -just a oh sorry, it was a long time ago kind of thing. You could tell she was a bit crushed and embarrassed but I don't feel bad. She was a spiteful, physically violent bully who tortured my friend and ruined her school years. She knew EXACTLY what she was doing. I have no desire to pretend it is now ok because she is an adult, nor that I want to chat with her.

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