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To think if May was a man they wouldn't be calling her delusional

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refusetobeasheep · 03/05/2017 19:23

I'm becoming increasingly uncomfortable with some of the adjectives being thrown at TM at present. Delusional, a fantasist ...etc etc. If she were a male PM would the likes of a Juncker (who I read is pretty much accepted to be mysoginist) be talking in this way? I know politics can involve name throwing but it's starting to smell a bit to me ....... she has a different viewpoint - Come on love, you're delusional ......

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PigletWasPoohsFriend · 03/05/2017 20:47

and keeps repeating the same shit over and over. Switch Make America Great Again for Strong and Stable.

Tbf they all do this.

'For the many not the few' for starters and the 'things can only get better' from Blair.

JamieXeed74 · 03/05/2017 22:24

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To think if May was a man they wouldn't be calling her delusional
KittyVonCatsington · 03/05/2017 22:42

No one voted for her to be PM- fanny or not.

No one voted for Sturgeon to be leader of the SNP either but that way of replacing a leader of a party is ok, as long as you like the leader?

user1493759849 · 03/05/2017 23:05

Agree with the OP.

Peoples attitudes towards Theresa May would be completely different if she was a man.

I have nothing but admiration for how she is dealing with the haters in the EU.

user1493022461 · 03/05/2017 23:08

She IS delusional.
The fact that you think we shouldn't call her what she so plainly is because she has a vagina is as ridiculous as it is depressing.

Who gives a fuck what sex she is when she is making such a monumentally fucked up mess of everything?

Zafodbeeblbrox10 · 03/05/2017 23:21

Maybe it's just TM that identifies as PM?

IfYouGoDownToTheWoodsToday · 03/05/2017 23:28

She thinks it's ok to be rude, dismissive and confrontational to 27 counties we are trying to negotiate with?
Well that never works so I'm not sure why she thinks it will here. I think the People who control the EU are pissing themselves laughing at us.

user1493759849 · 03/05/2017 23:30

No we are the ones laughing. We will be keeping our £350 million a week. THAT is why they are angry with us and are trying to bully us. They are bitter and angry that we are leaving. Good for May for sticking to her guns.

The EU are a joke. The sooner we leave the better.

user1493759849 · 03/05/2017 23:31

You'd have to be deluded to think the EU are laughing at us; they are FUMING that we are leaving. Sucks for them.

user1493022461 · 03/05/2017 23:33

We will be keeping our £350 million a week. THAT is why they are angry with us and are trying to bully us. They are bitter and angry that we are leaving

Theresa, you know you're not allowed on Mumsnet, it gets you all riled up before bedtime. Go get your cocoa and your pills, there's a dear.

IfYouGoDownToTheWoodsToday · 03/05/2017 23:34

But the EU haven't said anything "bullying"
All they said today was we should honour our budget commitments. Why that warranted the vitriol from TM today, I don't know.

squoosh · 03/05/2017 23:34

I have nothing but admiration for how she is dealing with the haters in the EU.

Are you 12 years old?

squoosh · 03/05/2017 23:39

Frankly it's too depressing in 2017 to think a woman can get the top job in the country and still be subjected to the same shit, so I'll stop worrying about it!

Yes OP stop worrying about it. And start worrying instead about the pitiful Trumpian stance May is taking. Trumpian with a soupçon of Le Pen, doing her best to stoke up nationalist fervour by insanely declaring the EU is trying to meddle with the general election.

Yeah, worry about that.

Guepe · 03/05/2017 23:40

No we are the ones laughing. We will be keeping our £350 million a week.
Hasn't everyone admitted that figure was bullshit?

There's no way the UK is getting a good deal out of Brexit.

IfYouGoDownToTheWoodsToday · 03/05/2017 23:58

So if this were a divorce, which many are likening Brexit to, one parent has asked the other to pay maintenance. The other parent then shouts "bully" and "aggression".
Yep that's a great way to split up successfully, ensuring all come out of this happy and still friends Hmm

Guepe · 04/05/2017 00:02

Agreed, IfYouGoDownToTheWoodsToday . Theresa May is grandstanding for the sake of her support base, but it'll only hurt negotiations.

GraceGrape · 04/05/2017 00:07

TM is delusional. So are David Davis and Liam Fox, neither of whom are women.

Bojo is the only one who isn't delusional. He knows it's all bonkers but is going along with it anyway. That's even more concerning.

nakedandconcerned · 04/05/2017 00:08

ifyougodown Grin did you watch the break up on channel 4 last night? Because that is now in my mind totally linked to brexit negotiations

BreconBeBuggered · 04/05/2017 00:11

Call me naive and a bit thick but I can't see how she justifies all this Brexit means Brexit, bloody difficult woman bullshit when she wanted the UK to remain in the EU. I don't know if she's delusional, but trying to pull the wool over a lot of eyes, sure. It's more about agenda than gender from where I'm sitting.

Anyway, can somebody please teach her some negotiating skills, for the love of God.

RedToothBrush · 04/05/2017 00:32

What is she doing that's not delusional?

She is as delusional as Donald Trump.

Delusional is saying that no trade deal with your biggest trading partner and all the other countries that have Free Tree Agreements through the EU is better than not having a deal. Delusional is saying that WTO terms are ok, even though the tariffs will kill so many business. Not to mention our position in the WTO is far from certain.

Delusional is blaming the EU for saying more or less the same things for months and then blaming them for their timing, when it was May who triggered a50 on her on timetable, May who called an Election she didn't need to, May who invited Juncker to dinner (it was originally supposed to be a meeting with just Davies but she wanted to get in on the act after she called the election), and May who got caught out for not knowing her shit at the dinner.

If May think that having a big mandate will help her against the EU she's wrong. It will help her domestically but not internationally.

She's not just delusional but borderline unhinged to go after people she's supposed to be coming to an amicable deal with by being so belligerent.

May needs an 'enemy' to fight so she can look tough. So she spits out a bunch of words. The truth is, she is weak and doesn't want to face the public because the mask will slip and she will fumble her words and not look like a 'fighter'. Its a deflection tactic from her own inadequacies.

If you don't think its delusional, I've love to know how far you need to go to quality as delusional.

Frankly I think the whole bloody lot of the hard core Brexiteers are delusional. It is not something that May has a monopoly on. She's plenty of company in that department.

JustAnotherPoster00 · 04/05/2017 00:43

On Thursday 27th April 2017, over ten months since the vote for Brexit, and almost a month since Theresa May set the clock ticking on the Brexit negotiations by triggering Article 50, the AFP news agency reported the "breaking news" that Theresa May has accused the other 27 EU countries of lining up to oppose Britain over Brexit!

It beggars belief that Theresa May came out with such a ridiculous statement, and that anyone consdered it newsworthy for any reason other than the fact that an actual British Prime Minster could have made such an extraordinarily slow-witted observation.

Of course the other 27 EU nations are opposing Britain over Brexit. It was obvious that Brexit was going to cause a massive diplomatic nightmare way before the referendum even took place.
Who on earth could have imagined that the EU would bend over backwards to give Britain what it wants, even if we were departing their club on amicable terms (which we're certainly not under Theresa May's lamentable leadership)?

For goodness sake. Why wouldn't they defend their own economic interests and the integrity of their union?

What on earth would possess them to offer better terms to a departing member than the terms available to existing (fee-paying) members of their club?
The thing that makes this statement from Theresa May all the more ridiculous is that if anyone is most responsible for the hard line the EU diplomats and member states are taking, it's clearly Theresa May herself.

Theresa May is hardening attitudes against us with her displays of bellicose foot stamping belligerence and her disdain for the liberal values that have bound Europe together ever since the two great British statesmen Winston Churchill (Tory) and Clement Attlee (Labour) collaborated to ensure nothing as horrific as the Holocaust could ever happen again by enshrining liberal British values across the whole continent of Europe through the European Convention on Human Rights.

After an excruciating six months of "Brexit means Brexit" dithering Theresa May finally announced her so-called "negotiating strategy" in her infamous January 2017 clown costume speech unveiling the centrepiece of her strategy to be a ridiculous threat that boiled down to "give us what we want or we'll trigger an economic meltdown by stropping away from the negotiating table with nothing".

It hardly takes a genius to recognise that threatening to blow up an economic bomb over Europe is not the way to establish good diplomatic relations with the EU 27.

Aside from making this belligerent threat the centrepiece of her "negotiating strategy" Theresa May has also severely pissed off our 27 former European allies by showing utter disdain for human rights. She's threatening to attack Churchill's finest legacy by scrapping the human rights of all UK citizens and residents, and her government also voted down an opposition party amendment to her Article 50 Act that would have obliged the government to at least begin looking into the process of protecting the rights of EU citizens who are resident in the UK.

Theresa May's contempt for human rights has horrified politicians across the European political spectrum from the centre-right EPP group all the way across to the progressive left and the greens. Her insistence on treating the lives of 3 million EU citizens in the UK as bargaining chips in the reckless game of brinkmanship she's playing is probably even less popular on the continent.

It's quite extraordinary that the British public, egged on by the jingoistic shouting of the right-wing propaganda rags actually allow themselves to believe that Theresa May's ludicrous threats against the economy of the people we have to negotiate some kind of deal with, and her extreme-right disdain for liberal values are examples of the "strong and stable leadership" that she's always wittering on about like a broken robot.

If the British people vote for a strutting combative charlatan like Theresa May, when they can see full well that she's too cowardly even to face Jeremy Corbyn or the other party leaders in a live debate, they'll be sleepwalking into chaos.

On June 23rd 2016 absolutely nobody voted for Theresa May to adopt a belligerent and self-defeatingly combative "make it up as I goes along" approach to Brexit, but if the British public hand her a thumping parliamentary majority on June 8th, then we'd be giving her a mandate to deliver a total bloody disaster.

Don't say you weren't warned.

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NotYoda · 04/05/2017 06:00

Westward

Mary is like Merkel in that she gets little in the way of sexist language directed at her is what I said

Jeez

NotYoda · 04/05/2017 06:14

**May not Mary

Quimby · 04/05/2017 07:56

"She not taking a tough negotiating stance, she's making unrealistic/unreasonable demands"

Exactly. Because so much of the rhetoric around Brexit was based on jingoistic rhetoric, she's now almost been forced to adopt a stance whereby she's acting as though the UK hold all the cards and the EU should be the ones who are tugging at the forelock.

After all, Brexit had put the great back in Great Britain and they're now free of the oppressive EU bullies and with this autonomy they can now make their own decisions, including what the EU should do next.

She must know it's all horseshit as she's looked to cut and run asap, and I think some of the comments from other leaders went beyond what was necessary. But ultimately she's been called out because of the delusional stance she's been forced to take where she seems to think she can dictate terms to the EU publicly.

Emphasise · 04/05/2017 08:00

That needs to go viral JustAnother

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