DH has just announced that he really enjoyed his shower - "I feel like I've neglected myself lately". We have a nearly 3 week old daughter and a nearly 6 year old son, me and baby are sleeping in the other room so he's not awake at night with baby crying, he's been out with his biking mates at least twice since baby arrived. I, on the other hand, barely have time to scratch my arse - can I throw something very heavy at him?!!!