DP and I have 1 DD.
I have PCOS and currently having a cyst rupture, extremely painful and I've struggled to move much all day. DD as been with my parents, only getting back an hour ago. I'm struggling to keep up with her already. DP is at work and knows all this and knows I was up nearly all night.
This rarely happens so when it does it knocks me for six.
DP is finishing work an hour early today (being a bank holiday) and he told me this morning he'll come straight home to help with DD. Now he's messaged me to say he's going for a drive after work and will be back around 30 mins after DD's bedtime. Leaving everything to me - as usual.
I do everything for DD, and DP. I know he's been at work all day and it doesn't normally bother me if he goes out for a drive or whatever, he works damn hard and he needs time to relax.
I just thought considering he knows how much pain I'm in, and 3-4 times today he's suggested to me to go to the GP, asked how I'm coping with DD, that he'd come home straight after work and help me out with our DD.
Aibu or am I being a selfish ass?