To be lusting like an old Cougar after a young man half my age?

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This has never happened before, I am a reasonable adult and level headed, but I've recently been crossing paths with a certain young man who is so handsome that I can't speak when he is around! WTF? Is it my hormones? I'm I having a mid life crisis? Does this happen to other people?

Here's to you Mrs Robinson.

😱 43 and 22

It's obviously completely inappropriate and I would never let on to the poor boy 😂

It worked for Brigitte Macron.

I'm ewwwing at myself too!

Stay calm. The young ones are thinking they might take on older ladies, nowadays. Play your cards right and you never know...

Good god no, I don't want anything to happen! Looking is enough for me but I'm shocked at how I react when he is around, it's totally subconscious and kind of innate 😂

Keep reminding yourself, that you could have children his age.

God. I used to regularly see a very nice young man in work. I was always overwhelmed with the urge to bite him on his biceps . He was so handsome, big muscles, smelled lovely. He looked like the member of a boy band. Honestly, the complete opposite to my usual 'type'. Eventually it kind of moved to a more maternal feeling once I got to know him and a bit more about his personal life thank goodness!

My mate reckons it's your eggs having a last gasp before entering perimenopause. This sounds entirely plausible. And no you are absolutely not alone... all my similarly-aged friends say the same my libido sadly is quashed by medication which is probably a good thing

If you are single however and he fancies it too... then why not? Fling isnt going do any harm although a longer term relationships might be a bit more awkward....

You are an adult woman and he is an adult male. Absolutely nothing wrong in feeling the way you do.
There aren't rules about a woman in her 40s being attracted to a man in his twenties, despite the hand wringing hysteria of disgusted individuals.

Thank goodness I'm not alone!
Mycavities, I think your mate has a good point. My eggs are gasping 😂
I saw his dad yesterday, didn't fancy him the same 😂

Last gasp of the eggs sounds right. Have a fling, might as well enjoy yourself!

I'm working with a 21 year old lad these days and find myself switching from 'Ooo I bet he's got a lot of stamina' to 'Ah bless him, he's so young' and then I pinch his (face) cheeks.

well look at the current Macron from FRANCE! www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-4457488/How-Macron-64-year-old-wife-fell-love.html

Love is where love is.

I don't think it is love we are talking about here

My friend used to call it art appreciation!

Its true a beautiful human is a thing to behold.

Are you both actually single?

I've got friend who are married, a huge age difference and after over 30 years of marriage they are still so happy together. She is a year younger than his father.
Just be sure OP that you both feel the same.

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My DP of some years is much younger than me , it works fab , we have loads in common , if it work for you why not ?
No one else's business

It's ok to look at someone much younger and register that they are very attractive - I occasionally do it myself. It doesn't mean you want a relationship with them.

I find I have to have a quick word with myself sometimes 😂

I know relationships where one partner is much younger than the other can work out fine but generllly I find them a bit odd. I am youthful and fun but I couldn't imagine having a relationship with someone 20'or 30 (🤢) years younger.

You are an adult woman and he is an adult male. Absolutely nothing wrong in feeling the way you do.
There aren't rules about a woman in her 40s being attracted to a man in his twenties, despite the hand wringing hysteria of disgusted individuals.

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