MrsTrent, if you were born today, how do you think you'd fare? And why do you think it wasn't that hard? There was a safety net - you had a council home to live in and I assume your parents had benefits?
I was born to a single mother who was thrown out by her family when she was pregnant. She was 28 so hardly young. She worked but once she had me and my brother, she struggled to get decent work to cover childcare and living costs.
She then got suspected pnd after my sister was born - I suspect a combination of reasons triggered it. This spiralled in to alcoholism then she was finally diagnosed with bipolar.
Did she get any help from the state? She got minimal. She was unable to crawl out of her dark place because mental health provision was woeful. Even when she was still coping, she was struggling with work and childcare. Despite being educated. It was not easy.
The problem I have with the Tories, is that they'd see people like her as a scrounger. And by extension, they would see me as a scrounger.
As a child I ended up in care, living in foster homes. I was offered a council flat at 16 which terrified me. I was not equipped to be chucked out. Luckily my foster parents helped me and I went to university. Which is rare for a "care leaver".
Now I have my own family and home. I earn well as does my brother. My sister is trying but has repeated the mistakes my mother made and has mental health problems. Unfortunately the Tory government will see that they're not properly addressed.
I got my head down and worked but being relatively bright, it was easy to do well in school. Managed to get a decent graduate job as a trainee accountant. I don't see that being so easy now.
So, for me, a safety net is vital. People will say that labour didn't do x/y/z but at least they don't write off children like me. At least they're not like the Tories who cut welfare, which mainly hits mums and therefore their children. The Tories don't really care about child poverty. I remember as a child only having flour in the house. We just ate water pancakes. Or toothpaste.
To see people as scum or scroungers is really sad. Yes of course you get people taking advantage but why tar everyone with the same brush?
There's a good reason why the Tories are called the nasty party.