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AIBU to think greedy people should be shot at dawn?

110 replies

GlitterGlue · 16/04/2017 17:12

And by that I mean people who take more than their fair share just because they can, not because they need it.

Went to an Easter egg hunt thing today. Community event so low cost (£1 a child) as some eggs had been donated. Each child given a small cardboard basket - big enough to fit in four or five eggs/items. Some children were scooping up enough everything they could see. Fair enough, small children so probably didn't know any better, although the rules had been explained beforehand - only what you can fit in your basket. However, several adults were encouraging their children to stuff their pockets full, and one woman actually shoved a load in her handbag!

There were complaints, but apparently she refused to put them back because she'd paid for them. Oh yes, that £2 you paid for your two kids really covered the price of the eggs you all took. And there weren't quite enough to go round because of those who took far more than their share.

Next year they are planing to use fake eggs which will have to be exchanged for chocolate, or do it as a treasure hunt type event, to stop the greed. Apparently they had issues at Christmas as well.

What on earth possesses people to be so greedy? It's even worse when they take way more than they can possibly eat (think 9 fairy cakes!) and are wasteful as well.

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haveacupoftea · 16/04/2017 17:36

I really think egg hunts should be divided by age. A 3 year old up against a ten year old is never going to come out of it well. I don't think it's just greed but showing off as well.

Maudlinmaud · 16/04/2017 17:36

Yes Disney land paris is mental for this. People take everything in sight to last them throughout the day. I stand watching them with my mouth agape. It's greed not need.

user1484578224 · 16/04/2017 17:37

really sad

GlitterGlue · 16/04/2017 17:38

longlostpal what sort of buffet do you go to where there is an infinite supply?

I presume she means the all you can eat all day type places. That's what I was thinking of. God, they're obscene at times.

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Patienceisvirtuous · 16/04/2017 17:38

Awful.

I remember a very under-catered wedding. Ceremony at 2. Buffet served at 9. We had to go up table by table. People piling their plates like gannets (obv starving but no thought to the rest). By the time we got there, there was literally nothing left :(

We felt ill, left early, and got a takeaway once home!

SailAwayWithMeHoney · 16/04/2017 17:38

This reminds me of a video I saw last week, - man in America taped loads of mo why to himself and walked around with a sign saying "take what you need". People in suits with their designer bags and shit took loads. Because they could. A homeless man took a dollar. To feed himself.

Some people are just unbelievable

SailAwayWithMeHoney · 16/04/2017 17:39

Money not mo why Hmm

Patienceisvirtuous · 16/04/2017 17:41

That's awful Sail :(

scaryclown · 16/04/2017 17:45

Yes. People who misunderstand that driving is about facilitating over all traffic flow, that working in a team is about fucking over the competition, not your colleagues, and that management is about nurturing and facilitation, not victimising employees should all be allowed to fuck each other, and then get ripped apart by pickaxes

UppityHumpty · 16/04/2017 17:46

This sounds like poor planning on the part of the organisers though. There should be an age limit on the egg hunts, seperate ones for older kids and younger kids, and fake eggs in the hunt should be exchanged for real chocolate ones.

harderandharder2breathe · 16/04/2017 17:47

At Guides we do a drink and a biscuit as s snack, and we tell them how many they can have each (including if 1 chocolate, 1 plain it something). For a while we had a handful of girls who without fail would try and take more than their share. They were the better off girls as well so not a case of not having enough dinner or anything like that.

Your egg hunt should definitely use plastic eggs next year and great the ones who find dozens with "that's nice, here's your three chocolate ones, as we did say only three per child"

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UppityHumpty · 16/04/2017 17:50

@RedMetamorphosis - what a bigoted statement. I lived in Singapore for a while and found Singaporeans to be really polite and considerate. Keep your racist lies to yourself!

OffRoader · 16/04/2017 17:50

I would never go to an Easter egg hunt for this exact reason!

But I do think children (and some adults!) behave like this whenever there is a limited amount of something and lots of people.

For example giving out the excess fruit/ milk in infants school. Kids aren't normally too fussed, but say 'there's some more left if anyone would like another' and you're guaranteed pushing, shoving and a punch-up!

Or those awful scenes of people fighting over tiny bottles of left-over water after the olympics.

Maybe it's our survival instinct kicking it, rather than greed?

OffRoader · 16/04/2017 17:52

London Marathon, not the olympics Blush

RachelRagged · 16/04/2017 17:53

I agree Op.
When DSs were in primary and it was World Food Day there were some greedy sods every single year

Sparklingbrook · 16/04/2017 17:54

I just think it's the 'something for nothing' mentality sometimes. In town one day some poor soul was giving out small tubes of toothpaste samples. One woman was shouting 'GIVE! GIVE!' at her because she wanted more than one. Sad

The same people wipe the whole reduced bay out in supermarkets instead of leaving stuff for other people.

Shopkinsdoll · 16/04/2017 17:54

The parents of those children should be ashamed!!

RedMetamorphosis · 16/04/2017 17:55

As did I Uppity.

For a long time. Grew up there actually. Also went back and worked there.

Mainly because my mother is Singaporean Chinese.
She would be the first to tell you about the kiasu mentality there.

Oh and Singaporean isn't a race, so technically it would be xenophobic.

longlostpal · 16/04/2017 17:56

longlostpal what sort of buffet do you go to where there is an infinite supply?

Yeah I was thinking of continental breakfasts in hotels on holiday. Not an infinite supply, but also catered so that it's not likely to run out. I always get over-excited at all the nice foods and take too much, at least on the first day or two. I agree it's bad wrt to food waste etc. And I don't think that I would grab the last 5 croissants or something just for the sake of it.... But I definitely get the urge to pile it high in those circs. I'm a responsible citizen in other areas, promise.

Littlepond · 16/04/2017 17:56

I was once at a breakfast buffet and everyone was waiting for a fresh batch of croissants - when the large plate of croissants was brought out one lady just picked up the whole plate and took it back to her family's table!

Sparklingbrook · 16/04/2017 17:59

The people that make sandwiches for lunch from the breakfast buffet always make me Hmm

fruitbats · 16/04/2017 18:01

😂 Littlepond

MickeyRooney · 16/04/2017 18:04

YANBU. there's always a few tossers to abuse the system.

Mummyoflittledragon · 16/04/2017 18:06

Littlepond

Didn't you then go to her table and help yourselves?

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