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To hate this smashcake craze?

588 replies

skerrywind · 09/04/2017 10:35

A close member of our family has just spent £100 on a smashcake for her 1st baby's birthday.
I find it quite disgusting to waste food like this. It surprises me that I have quite a gutteral reaction to this. I also find it disgusting to see people in baths of beans etc.

Anyone else feel like this or am I just a killjoy?

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GattoColorCioccolatto · 19/04/2017 00:06

Here is the other random photo off Pinterest that inspired my nickname...

Chocolate Coloured Cat.

To hate this smashcake craze?
Lweji · 19/04/2017 02:36

wonderingsoul

Too much fuss and too much money invested for such "skills".
That parents do it so that their child can learn or practice skills is laughable.

PoorYorick · 19/04/2017 06:40

Alas PoorYorick, where is your infinite jest and excellent fancy? Where be your gibes..your gambols? Your songs? Your flashes of merriment...

I'm dead and making you morose at the thought of your mortality. And wanting to make sure people who see the cat picture don't think "what a great idea" and get a chocolate sponge for their cat or dog. Might be obvious to you, but ask any vet how many poisoned animals they see around Easter and Christmas.

I work in animal welfare, it's not a risk I'm prepared to take, even if a Mumsnetter makes fun of me for it.

wonderingsoul · 19/04/2017 07:52

LWEJI off course they dont do it just for that reason, i was just saying that its not a total pointless activity for the kid.

They do it because they think its cute

Lweji · 19/04/2017 07:57

It is pointless because they could easily be doing something else.

And hardly "cute".

lolalament · 19/04/2017 09:48

This is getting ridiculous now

To hate this smashcake craze?
wonderingsoul · 19/04/2017 09:57

Any activity is pointless then isnt it.

We have food play at work which the babies love.. they play with jelly.. noodles.. flour.. bread... veg.. cream..
They get a lot out of it. It even helped a child who was differecult with eating. Getti g them to play with real food in a fun way atually helped them try newthings.

Lweji · 19/04/2017 10:33

Activity, yes.

Huge fuss with expensive photos in a studio, pointless.

herecomesthsun · 21/04/2017 08:43

And we are now on the BBC website here

HappydaysArehere · 21/04/2017 09:32

When did this craze come in? I have never heard of it. Sounds completely mad not to speak of wasteful. What if children start tipping food over children at school! Can't blame the children. Just point the finger at their parents.

Mum2bb · 21/04/2017 10:29

This post is hilarious. Some of you guys need to get over it. Leave people be if they want to have a cake smash for their babies. I'm sure there are more important issues to worry about.

Enjoy your 1st birthday cake smash little ones. I, for one, think you will have a fabulous time smashing that cake :) x

AtlantaGinandTonic · 21/04/2017 10:35

I had a smash cake for my daughter's first, as well as DD2 this year. My friends and family in the states had been having them for their children for a few years before that, so for me, they're not new. DD1 didn't smash the cake and we didn't have a pro photographer, just me. Five years later and DD2 treats her cake the same way. I suppose my girls just don't like mess! We just ended up with more cake to go round. We only did it for their first birthdays, so only to mark that one special occasion.

originalbiglymavis · 21/04/2017 14:33

BBC website says that there as also a post smash bubble bath also captured for posterity. What next! Post cake poo, photographed and bronzed for posterity?

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