So me and DP are in a long distance relationship, still in the U.K but a four hour drive from each other. We try and see each other every few weeks for the weekend but in the meantime text obviously a lot and talk on the phone.
To keep us 'okay' until we see each other we dedicate nights, usually once a week as a 'us' night. Where we will both stay at home, text each other and then try and FaceTime later on before going to sleep. It's happened throughout the relationship, we arrange this time together and then DP will end up going to the pub with friends from work and insist that it's fine because we are still messaging. Completely doesn't understand the concept of it being just us. Not us and the pub and his friends.
So tonight it's happened again, I cancelled playing one of my sports tonight to spend our time together and he's at the pub. Apparently stopped off with two of his colleagues and doesn't get why I'm so upset as he can still message me. All I ask is if he's going to the pub, it's fine, just tell me in advance so I don't cancel my plans instead of me waiting at home for something that will never happen.
AIBU? Or should I just suck it up and be fine I'm still getting messages every half hour without the FaceTime?