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To think that Sainsbury's security staff should have done "something!!!"

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MrsExpo · 06/04/2017 20:21

I went shopping at our local Sainsbury's. It's a big store with a large car park and I pulled into a space somewhere in the middle of the parking area. As I got my bags out of the car I noticed the window of the next vehicle was slightly open and then - to my horror - the reason was that there was a small child in a child seat in the back of the car!! Child must have been maybe 18 months or so, wide awake but quiet. Mother nowhere to be seen, so presumably in the store shopping. I waited by the car for a few minutes to see if the mother was going to reappear, but she didn't. While I stood wondering what to do, the child began to cry not surprisingly!! I should day I was just standing by my car, not staring in at the child or anything. So, I went into the store and reported it to the store security staff, who essentially said "not our problem" ...!! They refused to put out an announcement (I provided the car make and reg number), wouldn't send someone out to the car park or do anything about this at all.

AIBU to think 1) the mother behaved disgracefully(illegally??) to leave a small child like this and 2) the store security staff should have at least tried to alert the child's parent. I was in two minds about calling the police but really don't know what I should have done tbh .....

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Porpoiselife · 07/04/2017 11:46

As it happens, when I returned from my shopping I saw the car being driven way by a woman, which means the child must have been alone in the vehicle for around 25 minutes ......

Orrrrr the mother returned a minute after you left after putting her trolley away/getting money out of atm/saying hi to a friend she just spotted..... came back to see child was crying, took her in the shop, changed her nappy, came back out and back in car to drive off just as you were finishing your shop.

kali110 · 08/04/2017 12:42

Porpoiselife actually yes you have a good point!
Possibly the ticket machine could have had a queue/playing up even.

AwaywiththePixies27 · 08/04/2017 13:35

I am not sure i would have rung the police. By the time they arrived the car owner would be back and have driven off.

Not necessarily. They respond extremely fast to things like this usually. Two young boys were found on the playing fields near the pond in last years heatwave here. The person who found them rang the police and I have never seen them respond so fast in my life. Blues and twos the lot.

We were waiting at the bus stop across the road when it all unfolded. We didnt even notice them they were playing that quitely. Blush

Sparklingbrook · 08/04/2017 17:15

We will never know.

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