She's about 5ft4 and a size 16. I'm 5ft7 and a size 12. I'm not skinny but a normal, healthy weight. She is medically overweight.
Yet she constantly (as in every time we meet up) comments on how much weight she's lost and how she's slimmer than me. She makes comments that she would give me her clothes but they wouldn't fit me. If we go clothes shopping she informs me that she's a size 12, I need at least a size 14 or 'that would fit me but not you'.
I'm considerably thinner than her and unless she has a serious delusion she must know that.
She buys stretchy size 10 clothes and they look absurd on her as they don't come close to fitting. Just buy a size 16.
She tried on clothes and he size 16 always looks best but she refuses to buy them in that size and buys a 14 which is too small yet she insists she likes clothes baggy! 😂
She's not a bad person but she makes an idiot of herself with this as she makes these comments in front of mutual friends too and we all know I'm considerably thinner than her.
So why on earth do it? AIBU to think this is very odd behaviour?
She has low self esteem. None of us give two hoots about what size she is.