I have always been in favour of a compromise. always. but you want it both ways. you say any time off is damaging but that doesn't include music lessons, exams, sports etc.
the problem is that as a governor you have started believing the shit that the government are feeding you.
when confronted with other evidence you just wont see it or believe it. you aren't a teacher, Jellyfrizz is. you aren't restricted to holidays in term time. you can afford to go abroad.
I can absolutely empathise with the parents who are fed up with absenteeism. I am fed up with it - and by that I mean the kid who is late every day. the kids who are learning 3 instruments in school and keep coming in and out from those lessons. the kids who go off abroad for 3 months of the year and say its because their imaginary friend excepts it of them. I am fed up that the govt are using this as a smokescreen to stop them having to deal with the persistent offenders. the ones who need the most and in depth support.
You have shown me and others nil empathy. its either change your job or go private. Like I could do either. Have a lovely holiday.