" but lots of things lots of us do in our day jobs take up too much time but its our jobs, its meant to take up time. "
Yes, and when an inordinate amount of time for someone whose time is extremely valuable ( because we pay them a lot) is taken up with what is a small part of their job, you find a way to change that. After all you run a business no? Where is your ROCE on getting a head to deal with this? What is the opportunity cost?
In a big school like ours you can have hundreds of requests across the year, all of which have "exceptional" circumstances and valid reasons for going according to the parents. At the same time you have to deal with the real exceptional circumstances requests.
"good well organised, well respected heads don't say this. Heads that hide in their offices and have no idea how to deal with conflict and saying the difficult decisions do. "
Good heads have better things to do than dealing with entitled parents who want to argue about whether their situation was exceptional or not, which they all did when permission wasn't provided.
"sorry, all you teachers out there, sorry that your profession isn't allowed to think for itself but has to follow rules only."
How patronising. The profession is allowed to think for its self, but of course has always had to follow the rules.
BTW much of the data needed to be provided can be gathered using things like SIMS these days.
"it stops giving schools the flexibility to reflect individual and area circumstances"
It doesn't, exceptional circumstances are still allowed, however taking kids out for holidays in term time is not. This includes religious festivals, having to travel for family events and many others.
As I've said before, the problem with the old system is that the 2006 ruling meant that some parents thought they were entitled to take 10 days every years, and did. They weren't, the problem is as much as you bleat on about it is that everyone thinks that their individual circumstances are exceptional and won't take no for an answer.
So therefore either everyone does get to take 10 days providing their attendance is over 95% or no one does. The government have opted for the latter.