Other than my £3,000 (from 1997, deferred every year) hanging around like a bad smell, we have no debt.
We also don't have a mortgage, we rent. 20 year old car, when it goes we'll buy another 2nd hand in cash.
We have savings as our jobs are a little bit all over the place.
My suster got into horrendous debt many years ago when Switch was introduced- like spending invisible money! It freaked me out so I have always been very careful. My student overdraft when I left university was paid off within 3 months (lived at home, didn't go out, worked 3 jobs).
DH and i have had zero financial help from parents, ever. No downpayment for a house, no driving lessons, no contribution to our wedding - we don't expect anything, I hasten to add.
My sister's situation left a knot of fear in my stomach expecting bailiffs. DH's parents have always lived by the seat of their pants and he had yo grow up very fadt and deal with lian sharks on behalf of his dad. Long story; it is not something he wants to live through again.
Once your debt is clear, rackhampearl you sound like you won't be in debt again. Best of luck 