To wipe my hands from kids dad.

[Hatade16]

Been split up 4 years. He hasn't paid a penny in that time, probably seen the kids less then 20 times in 4 years. His choice, I offer but he doesn't bother. He's had two more kids with his gf. Everytime I have asked for financial help towards dd &a ds I get threats, he's going to kill me, burn my house down etc etc. So I back off.

Well enough I thought, so on Monday I rang cms. They have contacted him already. And I have just received a message saying he wants to sign parental responsibility over, that "you want the kids so you can have them" that he doesn't want anything to do with them and if he signs them over I have to cancel cms.

So...
How do I do it?!

It's classic bullshit!! If he has a low income he won't have to pay much, if they are living beyond their means they will have to adjust their lifestyle.

As I said block, ignore and let CMS deal with it.

I'm getting loads of threats now! He's going to kill me, he's going to ruin my life etc etc. He thinks the threats are going to make me back down.

If he's making threats to kill you, please phone the police NOW.

Tell the police about the threats.

Threats = police

Now he's changed to he's going to ring cms and explain everything about how I'm a "good digging whore" and then ring the police and have me done for harassment! 😂

Tell the police.

You need to ignore his messages and call the police because he is harassing you and making threats to kill you.

Definitely call the police!