Anniversary gift.

[pissedlady]

I've next to no money but wanted to get my DP an anniversary gift.

I bought something he's been wanting for a while now, I cleared the garden and and fitted it in the garden where he was talking about fitting it.

So he comes home, I tell him that it's there (gotta pass garden to get to house). And he whinges about it, complaining.

I just turned and walked away. I wasted £20 that I don't really have spare ATM (no it's not much I know but right now it is) to get him something HES wanted, exactly where he wanted, I spend an hour fitting it. And longer clearing the garden for HIM. For what.

AIBU to be annoyed?

YANBU. How thoughtless of him when you went to a lot of effort for him. I'd be massively hurt and pissed off.

What is it? Is it something that you can take apart again and return? Why should he keep it if he's not appreciative

YANBU, how disappointing and hurtful that he can't be grateful and nice about when you've clearly put in so much effort to be thoughtful.

Has he got you anything?

What is it? (Intrigued)

Has he got you anything?