What is the usual response ....

[flumpybear]

What's the usual response when a grandmother
Calls her four year old grand son a 'spoilt brat' because he was hungry and asked for a
Biscuit ...
AIBU to want to slap her !! Surely de could have said 'how about a sandwich' ....I mean it was an hour after tea time and they hadn't eaten because we were waiting for a recovery vehicle - I was all set to feed them at home but they got peckish (I thought the late lunch and birthday cake in
The afternoon may have tide them
Over til we got home!

A bit lol yeah.....

So she doesn't sound like a pleasant person anyway. She's your MIL? So is your DH going to talk to his mother about her behaviour being unacceptable and if it doesn't improve you'll have to minimise the amount of time your children are exposed to it?

Yes I think you're right Phoenix - we do anyway, this weekend is the first time Since Christmas we've been there -
They came to us once .... less than that is ridiculous but necessary I think!!
I really try to not lose my rag but occasionally I do fight back .... shouldn't need to do that with family