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6 year old in my house for 6 hours no parents have looked for her?

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Crazymoo82 · 18/03/2017 18:26

My 6 year old brought one of her friend into play at 12 today. The girl is a neighbour however she lives at one end of a rather long street and we live at the other . My dd has to come tell me if she is going into her friends house, should say though that the friend I means is not the girl here atm. Dds friend is only 3 doors down and I can see the house from my garden. However this other girl has been here for 6 hours now, she hadn't had lunch when she came in so I gave them some, asked her if her mum knows where she is she said no she is at the shops! Also gave her dinner now as I wasn't going to give my dds and leave her out. Aibu to be pissed off at this girls parents for 1 going to shop and just leaving her playing In the street, 2 not bothering to look for their dd for so long?
My daughters go out to play they must stay in the garden or if going to play with others then I watch or walk up with them and they all play in one of our gardens together. If my dds had been away for 6 min alone I would be going crazy!

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Annesmyth123 · 18/03/2017 18:43

Take her home !

BackforGood · 18/03/2017 18:44

Agree with everyone else.
Why on earth have you allowed her to stay in your house for so many hours without contacting hr parents? Shock

user789653241 · 18/03/2017 18:44

Agree with pp. As soon as she said her mum doesn't know where she is, I would have taken her back. Why didn't you?

Hercules12 · 18/03/2017 18:45

Shock you've kept a 6 year old in your house for 6 hours without telling her parents?

WeAllHaveWings · 18/03/2017 18:47

You don't know the parents haven't looked for her, they maybe don't expect her to be in someone's house. Take her home, and get her mums mobile number so you can let her know if she shows up in the future.

Crazymoo82 · 18/03/2017 18:48

Her mother has done this several times with myself and other neighbours. I should have mentioned that I did go to her house and no answer at the door. Her mother has now came to collect her thanked me for having her and said "i was wondering where she had got to"

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Miserylovescompany2 · 18/03/2017 18:48

Another agreeing that you should walk her back. Her parents are probably going out of their minds with worry. You should of taken her back when she said nobody knew she was there IMHO...

Lilaclily · 18/03/2017 18:49

Massive drip feed

RebelRogue · 18/03/2017 18:49

Well if DD showed up with a rAndom kid at my house who then told me her parents have no idea where she is,i would've taken her home right away.
1.maybe they are desperate and looking for her right now
2.maybe she was supposed to be at another's friends house
3.maybe someone was actually home and they do know where she is
4.maybe they are rubbish parents that don't care.
Either way my first reaction would not be to be angry at them.

FrenchLavender · 18/03/2017 18:49

So you took her word for it that her parents were at the shops without checking? This sounds like the sort of thing a six year old might make up to avoid being sent home. It may well be true also, but you were a bit daft to just talk her word for it.

AgentProvocateur · 18/03/2017 18:50

Is this real? I can't believe some people have so little common sense. Hmm

Hercules12 · 18/03/2017 18:50
Hmm
fassbendersmistress · 18/03/2017 18:50

In 6 hours you haven't had the time to walk the girls down the street to check her parents know where she is?? What would you want another patent to do if it was your daughter who had wandered off to see a friend...? Jesus, YABU!

Miserylovescompany2 · 18/03/2017 18:50

Just seen up date. The mother needs a bloody good shake!

Maudlinmaud · 18/03/2017 18:50

I thought you would say something like that op.

Crazymoo82 · 18/03/2017 18:52

As I said in previous post I did go to the house with her and dd to let parents know were she was but there was no answer.

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RebelRogue · 18/03/2017 18:52

So she knew where her kid was? Since she came and collected her?

Crazymoo82 · 18/03/2017 18:53

No she had tried a couple of other kids houses that she plays with

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PutThatPomBearBack · 18/03/2017 18:56

When i was reading through the first page i was thinking 'i bet the OP's going to come back with a massive drip feed'

and surprise surprise Hmm

user789653241 · 18/03/2017 18:57

Something doesn't add up....

OreoDream · 18/03/2017 18:57
Hmm What shitty parenting to not know where your 6yoDD is!

I think you need to tell her it's not acceptable OP.

3luckystars · 18/03/2017 18:57

Unbelievable

DartmoorDoughnut · 18/03/2017 18:57

Oh FFS that's a massively different story and set of circumstances!!

user789653241 · 18/03/2017 18:59

When you went around to her house and no one was in, you didn't leave the note or something to let them know where she is?

Annesmyth123 · 18/03/2017 18:59

That's a totally different scenario to the one in the op

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