The title probably sound worse than it it but only way I could put it ! .
He left me and very sick daughter very early on and moved country.
He visits maybe once every 6-8 months.
I rang him many times during very serious times one being a very life threatning surgery and another being a critical time where our child was in ICU fighting for her life.
He never once offered to come which I put down to distance.
Then I got a phone call one morning saying could he come and see her the next day ( she was well at the time ) because he is on the drop of a flying to see his grandad who he had not seen in 10 years ( lives in another country ) because he is in hospital sick.
His connecting flight was to england and staying here the night before flying again to grandad .
I am a bit annoyed that he would do this at the drop of the hat for his grandad he had not seen in 10 years but not for his young child.
( grandad was discharged the day he got there )
( distance although a diff country it is still uk ) grandad lives in another european country.
AIBU to be a bit pissed off or I am I just selfish.