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To say hello to a blackbird every evening and feel lovely about it

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badonkydonk · 27/02/2017 18:20

Every evening at dusk, there is a beautiful blackbird singing its tuneful little heart out just behind my house. Same tree, and same time (later and later as the nights get longer). I just happened to notice him a few nights in row but I actively stand outside to hear it now.

The latest development is that I actually address him as Mr Blackbird (maybe Mrs Blackbird but I don't like to pry), say good evening to him and tell him how lovely he is (may have even asked him if he had a good day tonight!)

Does anyone else say hello to random things and get an overbearing sense of warmth from it?

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supercue · 10/03/2017 10:34

Just discovered that DH regularly chats to robins, asks them all sorts, no answers yet though.

Saw my first coal tit yesterday.....was really excited!

RortyCrankle · 10/03/2017 23:20

I don't know if you find the same but all the birds seem to love fat balls as well as the food I scatter on the ground. They disappear even faster in the summer and I sometimes have to replenish a couple of times a day. I get buckets of 50 fat balls delivered by Wilko and they disapppear at a fast rate.

The top of my peanut feeder doesn't close properly because of the branch it's on and I've noticed a blue tit dipping it's whole body head first into the feeder and taking a whole peanut, instead of perching and pecking on the outside. I'm scared he's going to get stuck in the feeder and may have to move it to a new branch as his whole body goes in when the feeder is half full.

I started putting water out for them in a very big pot tray. I had no idea how much they needed it but watching them they use it quite frequently. It's so funny seeing a couple perched on the side trying to have a drink while getting drenched by a couple of starlings having a very vigorous bath Grin

SabineUndine · 10/03/2017 23:25

I go hiking in woodland at weekends and there's a sort of robin relay keeping an eye on me the whole way. If they're close enough, I say hello.

RumbleMum · 10/03/2017 23:29

Me too. I have a female blackbird who pops up when I go down to my chickens and she squawks at me till I give her mealworms. For some reason I always greet her with 'hello, lady!'

Mysteriouscurle · 10/03/2017 23:33

We have several mr and mrs blackbirds a robin and a grey squirrel. I love the blackbirds especially. We also have several other birds that come to the feeder. I sit at my window with my rspb book flicking hurriedly through all the different pictures trying to identify them. When I retire I shall sit there all day and be an expertGrin

Mysteriouscurle · 10/03/2017 23:34

I talk to them all as wellBlush

EllieFredrickson · 10/03/2017 23:44

Us too. For a good year or so we know we had the same blackbird as he had a streak of white in his wing. He was called Maggy after a Magpie.

We have quite a few - probably encouraged by the mealworms.

Loads out and about too - not so keen when they fly low in front of the car. Find myself telling them off!

MumW · 26/04/2017 20:24

Our blackbird has been singing his heart out recently. I'm sure that one of his phrases sounds like "I'm a Barbie girl" or maybe I'm just imagining it.Hmm

Dustbunnies · 26/04/2017 21:21

Always Smile

When I was in my first year of uni in halls in the middle of the city a blackbird used to sing all through the early hours of the morning and I would always talk to it, I loved that there was a tiny piece of nature in the middle of the city that most people probably never noticed.

10 years on and DD and I always talk to/about all of the birds we see on our walk to nursery through the park every morning. I'm very proud that she's only 2 and can name a number of different birds accurately Smile

GallicosCats · 26/04/2017 21:44

MumW birds can be great mimics so you never know, he could have heard the song.Grin

BaconAndAvocado · 26/04/2017 22:15

YANBU

We have a beautiful robin I always greet in my garden.

I'm sure he's trying to communicate with me.

And , yes, it definitely gives me a warm fuzzy feeling inside Smile

Onceuponatime21 · 26/04/2017 22:24

I love my garden birds. So much so that the cat is going to have to be confined to the house for the next 6 months as she has already clocked one of the blackbird nests... I love cats, and my cat, but love my birds too!

maitaimojito · 26/04/2017 22:27

I have a blackbird that darts between my feet when I'm gardening, picking up the worms that have been dug up.

Every time I go in the garden he seems to appear. I've started to feed him sultanas and he was sat next to the window chirping at me the other day when I got home from work. It's amazing how tame he is.

stayathomegardener · 26/04/2017 22:47

We had a Robin that kept coming in the house.
He sat on top of the tree at Christmas.
DH found him dead in the porch last month. I was irrationally upset.

Freyanna · 26/04/2017 22:56

I always speak to cats when I am out and see one.

We also have a blackbird in the garden I call Larry. He is always first out when I replenish the bird feeder.

We have two wood pigeons who I call Wilfred and Eileen after the WW1 couple who were devoted to each other.

Blimey01 · 26/04/2017 22:58

Since i was was a child when i see a magpie on its own i always say ' hello Sir how's your wife?'
Not sure where it comes from Hmm

AverysillyoldHector · 26/04/2017 23:02

Our Mr blackbird sings beautifully every evening, it is just a wonderful sound. I love lying in bed listening to Mr and Mrs owl chatting across the trees. And we have Mr and Mrs Buzzard who raise a family every year - I always tell them how pleased we are to have them back Smile

UrsulaPandress · 26/04/2017 23:06

I speak to every animal I see.

At the moment I take a glass of wine into the garden of an evening to enjoy the blackbird's song.

Trustyourself2 · 26/04/2017 23:06

I was whistling to a blackbird in my garden today and I swear he was answering back. Probably tellin me to eff off and get a life!

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