DH following me to bed.

[acornsandnuts]

I probably am BU but it just irritates me daily. I can be really tired and at 9.30 will say I'm off to bed, DH "yep me too". Or it can be 11.30 and he will sit until I say I'm going to bed then say "yep me too". Same goes for 10, 11 or what ever o'clock it is.

Why can't he own his own bed time.

I would love 20 mins in bed alone or half an hour downstairs alone but it never fecking happens because he's THERE!

I know that feeling SO well! It's bloody maddening. When their efforts to be "nice" are actually just doormatty/passive/weak, and you feel that you have to second-guess what they actually DO want to do/say/eat/etc, because they'll never actually just bloody TELL you, so working out what they want becomes just another thing on your own to-do list. Argh.