I don't resent the income that my grandparents/PIL etc have as pensioners. I do resent the idea that it's just because my generation (born early 80s) aren't working hard enough.
Pensioners I know well:
Paternal grandparents: born 1937 and 1940. Gpa was a dentist. They had 5 kids. Granny didn't work until she was in her 40s/50s and kids had mainly left home, and then she managed their dental practice. Gpa retired at 60. Live in a 6 bed house in a naice area. Paid for 1 elderly relative's nursing home fees, but their other parents lived long and healthy lives and died suddenly, without requiring care. They're pretty well-off.
Maternal grandparents: born 1937 & 1942. Dentist again. 2 kids. Gma didn't work until she was in her 40s, when she qualified as a teacher. Downsized and moved across country back to their roots to a 3 bed bungalow (not a nice area!). Gdad retired at 55. No elderly parents requiring care. I wouldn't say they're particularly well-off, but they are comfortable/average.
Stepgrandparents: Born late 1940s. SGF: Accountant. 2 kids. Step-granny didn't work when her children were young, and when she did, it was part-time. They aren't paying care fees either. I would say they're pretty comfortable.
PIL: Born in the 50s. Aeronautical engineer and librarian. RAF. 2 kids. MIL stopped work when her kids were born and didn't go back until they were 8-10 and at boarding school (RAF scholarship). Paid 1 set of care fees until 10 years ago (pre-retirement, now no living parents). They have 3 pensions between them and are, quite frankly, loaded. They live quite modestly (apart from the holidays), but inherited a fair whack and have told us that even with care fees for 10+ years, there will still be an inheritance left.
The common theme with all these is that for previous generations, you could be perfectly comfortable on one wage. I know there were issues - my own parents matured during the Thatcher years and were as poor as church mice until the 90s when the housing market took off.
My generation is being divided sharply down the middle by people who have grandparents to provide childcare and those who don't. I pay about £10k a year in childcare (including childcare vouchers) for 2 children 3 days a week. Add that to house prices and you can see why we're in private renting. I'm not knocking pensioners - all the ones I know are lovely - but I would like to see salaries rise until it becomes possible to live and raise children on one wage again. Even if they ever do, we'll still be the lost generation in the middle.