ExConstance: in our family , this 'nonsense' of living through the war includes :
My parents, both alive now, one had the family home bombed out, one was evacuated, lived with strangers, lost one parent, so life was hard from then on. Did National Service. Neither parent inherited anything, their parents had been reasonably 'well to do', from blue collar mine worker and shop manager families, but the hardships and aftermath of the war on their grandparents (Ww1) and parents (both wars) meant there was no property for my parents to inherit.
My Dad did national service.
They did buy a house. It did rise in value. My Dad has a modest (tiny£ annuity, that dies with him. Thr equity in the house is being used to fund care for their post stroke / dementia difficulties.
This 'nonsense ' also includes my Jewish aunt, who remembers the Nazis searching the house while she hid in the chimney. She came here alone on Kindertransport, not knowing if she would see her parents again. She did, they got out, but now she is old and alone she lived in terror every time the door goes. My cousins pay for a companion for her, again drawn down from equity release.
All that nonsense.