Ok, so i would appreciate some perspective on my current situation please. Me and DH had a row last Sat and the again on Sun. Not over anything major..but it escalated and we both said some horrible things to one another. House has been pretty much all pic no sound all week! I Tried on Tues to talk with him. .to try to resolve things..was told he wasn't engaging. I tried again on Wed..to be stonewalled. He has made it pretty obvs that he doesn't want to talk or sort things out yet. DH was due to go on a stag on Friday and I didn't want this ill feeling lurky around while he was gone. None the less..i am not going to beg him to speak to me and off he went on Friday. Still silence between us. He rang on Fri night to speak to LO before bed for few mins...then nothing all day today. He rang at 8pm but LO was already in bed. He goes to bed @ 7.30 pm latest since always. Phonecall was a general how is LO..being a good boy etc..and nothing else. 2 min phonecall and off he went. Fine. He's still annoyed with me. Not the time to talk anyways..he's on a stag in a diff country!!
My problem is this. Approx 3 weeks ago we booked a hotel stay for tomo night. Its my Daughters Bday on Fri. She will be 17.( FYI- Not his Daughter)We loosely mentioned that i would lift him from his returning flight at airport and we would all head off. The 4 of us. Nothing confirmed..I don't even know his flight number or return time. It was early afternoon is all I know.
But I will be honest..I feel like packing the car up tomo morning and heading off without him. Firstly he hasn't attempted to make arrangements and secondly if he's still in such foul form it will only ruin our night away. This was meant to be a treat, not a chore!!
What would you do??