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AIBU to expect my children to earn pocket money?

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Notmuchtosay1 · 27/01/2017 18:51

My older 2 boys (13 and 15) have 2 rooms each to clean and tidy to earn pocket money. They have their own bedroom to clean and 1 other room each (oldest has living room, younger has play room) they don't have to vacuum up just put stuff away (which is never much in the living room or playroom) and dust. Both have decided they'd rather have no money than clean. Though occasionally they'll do it if there's something they want to buy. Then 2 jobs they have to do for nothing, they are both expected to put clothes in the wash (and PE kits) and put their lunch box out for me to empty. They throw their clothes on their bedroom floors all week, which I refuse to wash until they are in the basket. Don't ask about PE kits.
My 13 year old keeps telling me IABU he says it's child labour. He shouldn't have to put his clothes in the wash. He definitely shouldn't be expected to do jobs to earn pocket money.
"Apparently" all his friends get pocket money (more than I'm offering) without doing jobs, also most of them have mums that tidy their rooms or or have a cleaner.
I just wondered...what do you guys do? AIBU to expect them to earn their money? Also is £5 weekly stingy? (If they go out with friends, which is rare I do give them spending money, plus they get change for tuck etc at school)

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Notmuchtosay1 · 28/01/2017 11:25

Thinking about it...taking away wifi wouldn't bother the oldest as he doesn't use it that much. But the middle one would hate it. He seems to spend every spare bit of time on snap chat or FaceTime or chatting on his Xbox. The oldest doesn't really chat to people. He likes his tv better.

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Ellisandra · 28/01/2017 13:35

So why not start a thread asking how to change your wifi password?

You know that even if you don't change it, you are allowed to tell them to surrender their devices?

buckeejit · 28/01/2017 15:41

My 3 yo gets breakfast cereal, bowl, spoon & milk out!

I also need to get mine to do more chores-think the chart thing is good esp now the 7yo is obsessed with his 'phone' (no sim). Screen time payment seems like a good idea for both of them after chores are done.

I'm agog at how much pocket money some children get. I get less spending for fun money than £50 a month!

OhYouBadBadKitten · 28/01/2017 16:22

with regard to turning wifi off, is it possible to remove the power cable?

Notmuchtosay1 · 28/01/2017 16:36

I've pulled wires out and done all sorts over the years. Not anything to do with chores, just behaviour in general. They usually figure it out. Even my 7 year old worked out I'd pulled a wire out hos tv. He'd been answering back so I wouldn't let him have tv time. It usually takes a while for them to figure out though. 😂😂

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BertrandRussell · 28/01/2017 16:39

Just change the password!

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