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To be so sad

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Infinityplus1 · 15/01/2017 18:12

N/c. identifying when linked with my usual name.

I have a very, very good friend who has had a difficult time recently. She's a bit all over the place (understandably) and I have been trying to support her. We've known each other for a very long time.

A conversation happened yesterday, the outcome of which I thought was her arranging to come and stay, then me going to stay with her in a few weeks. I can't go to her immediately because of my job. All seemed fine.

But overnight..I don't know what happened....I got a horrible message this morning saying I had said I had too much on to see her but that I had said she could come stay despite knowing that was very difficult for her.

i rang her straight away but no answer. Then I sent a message. She has now blocked me, as far as I can tell.

I'm so sad. Sad

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NavyandWhite · 15/01/2017 18:18

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Infinityplus1 · 15/01/2017 18:19

She really is. Yeah, a letter isn't a bad idea.

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NavyandWhite · 15/01/2017 18:52

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Infinityplus1 · 15/01/2017 18:53

Thanks. I feel like crap tbh.

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NavyandWhite · 15/01/2017 18:56

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Infinityplus1 · 15/01/2017 19:00

She lives 3 hours away (hence not being able to drop everything and go)

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NavyandWhite · 15/01/2017 19:04

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Infinityplus1 · 15/01/2017 20:11

She does, a bit.

Equally I feel pretty flipping hurt and angry.

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NavyandWhite · 15/01/2017 20:49

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Infinityplus1 · 15/01/2017 21:19

No. She's always been a wee bit flaky.

But nothing like this, at least not to me.

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