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To hsve expected a well done

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Catlady1976 · 13/01/2017 18:06

So a few weeks before Christmas I I took an exam. I was told on-the day that I had passed subject to verification.this has now been confirmed. I am really pleased. I have told dh on both occasions and not once has he said we'll done.
Aibu to expect this.

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ShowMePotatoSalad · 13/01/2017 18:07

That's really unkind. What did he say to you if not well done? Anything?

Catlady1976 · 13/01/2017 18:09

Bit fat nothing. Probably wasn't listening.

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QuiteLikely5 · 13/01/2017 18:13

Symptomatic of other issues imo

FetchezLaVache · 13/01/2017 18:15

Is he normally so unsupportive and unencouraging of you?

Well done, by the way! :)

Catlady1976 · 13/01/2017 18:16

I know I should have repeated it but was stunned Tbh.

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Catlady1976 · 13/01/2017 18:19

You are probably right. He had the hump with me for making him complete a tax return by claiming child benefit.Yes we will have to pay some back but felt it was worth the stress for £800.

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ButteredToastAndStrawberryJam · 13/01/2017 18:23

Maybe tell him that it hurt your feelings not acknowledging your achievement, then take it from there depending on his reaction.
Well done you.

PhilODox · 13/01/2017 18:26

Keep on claiming the CB- it means you're registered with HMRC for NI stamp.
Well done! FlowersStar

Catlady1976 · 13/01/2017 18:29

Thank you. I think when I opted out I still claimed it for NI purposes.
I reclaimed when our circumstances changed and I am glad I did.
Time for a chat.

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