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Aibu to cancel the date

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Peanutandphoenix · 12/01/2017 05:37

I was speaking to this fella last night he asked 4 times for my number I told him no each time he asked said the more he asked more likely he was to not get it he asked me on a date and suggested meeting up and going to his I told him no and he asked me why what 35 year old man thinks it's OK to ask someone back to theirs on a first date he then asked after a few dates would we have sex and asked me how big my boobs are I basically told him to jog on and to change the way he speaks to women because it might work with someone who has the morals of an alley cat but it won't work with me he just sounded like a right perv and made me feel really uncomfortable. I felt a bit bad about cancelling the date but I didn't feel safe about meeting up with him and I blocked him. He did apologies but was I being a bit too hasty.

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Peanutandphoenix · 12/01/2017 18:00

Thanks ladyinformation starting to now think I should give up on the world of online dating because I only ever seem to attract the wrong kind who will cheat on me or steal money off me maybe I should just be happy on my own. I only do online dating because unlike most girls my age you will never see me proping up a bar on a Friday and Saturday night but am starting to think that online dating is just full of the wrong kind of men who only want sex are there really any decent men out. Has anyone had a good experience with online dating.

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ConvincingLiar · 12/01/2017 19:20

Three of my best friends got married to OLDs. Maybe get a sensible friend to review your profile to make sure you're sending out the right message?

Peanutandphoenix · 12/01/2017 19:33

Thank you convincingliar I will ask someone to look at my profile see if there's anything I can change on it I might have more luck if I change something although I didn't think I was coming across in a bad way put maybe a fresh pair of eyes might help. Smile

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