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neighbour using my drive when I'm out.

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birdladyfromhomealone · 09/01/2017 16:25

I came home early this morning just after 11am as i have had a chest infection since before Xmas and was struggling at work.
When I got home there were two cars on my drive, one park almost touching my front window and the other one at an angle beside it.
This is the only way to get two cars on the driveway so whoever it was parking there must know the driveway well and how to get two cars on it.
Outside on the road is permit parking and no parking between 10 and 12am.
This is to stop commuters and shoppers parking as we are five minutes from a huge indoor shopping centre.
I had to park behind them blocking them in and blocking the pavement also.
I left a note on my car for the traffic warden
Please knock on door as I have to obstruct the pavement due to two illegally parked cars on my drive.
half an hour later my next door neighbour in his 70's who we NEVER see knocks on my door.
Totally unapologetic and says one car belongs to his wife's carer as she cant park on the road due to restrictions and the other is a neighbour from up the road who uses our driveway when we are at work as her driveway is not big enough.
Even though I was fuming he still just didnt seen to think it was a problem even saying.
Well when your at work your not using it and at least it makes it look like some one is home.
I told him to get them moved straight away.
The carer came round looking really sheepish and asked would I mind if she parked during the restrictions between 10 and 12 as she has been given a ticket in the past. I said fine if no one is in but why cant my neighbour move his car off his drive to enable his wife's carers to park. He cant afford £40 a year to pay for a permit for his carers?
The other car nearly touching my front window is still there so I have put a not on it.
Caroline, I have reported your car to the police as an abandoned vehicle. Since then Nicholas has told me he gave you permission to park here. Nicholas has no business or authority to use our driveway. It would have been polite and neighbourly to at least have asked permission. If your car is parked on my driveway again I will be reporting you to the police.
Tomorrow if I am feeling better I am off the B&Q to buy a chain and paddlock so they cant use my drive!

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SirChenjin · 10/01/2017 07:10

Has Caroline still not appeared??! Time to wake Nicholas and get him to get Caroline - or tell you where she lives. She's waiting for the signal that you've gone so she can move the Passat.

FrogTime · 10/01/2017 07:16

Ooooh good old parking thread!
Where's Caroline?!

We have a shared driveway with space to park a car each at the end on the bit that is our own private property. Next door often use our bit as we don't have a car but I regularly get wine and chocs for it because neighbour feels guilty! Where's your wine and choc OP?! probably several months worth!!

gunsandbanjos · 10/01/2017 07:18

Disappointed to read over 800 posts and still have no idea where the fuck caroline is!!

CouldntMakeThisShitUp · 10/01/2017 07:19

i woke up early for this Angry

taytopotato · 10/01/2017 07:19

Cancel the cheque!

AradiasDaughter · 10/01/2017 07:20

Has she still not been for her car yet?!

Kirriemuir · 10/01/2017 07:21

I have no shame. Place marking. She'll be waiting in you going out today.

beansbananas · 10/01/2017 07:22

Wakey wakey, time to move your car Caroline!!

fuckoffdailysnail · 10/01/2017 07:23

Caroline where are you!! This has entertained me no end while up feeding 6mo DD!
Reminded me of when I lived in a flat with my mum and brother and we had numbered parking spaces. Some idiot parked in my mums space so my brother parked his car across the back of the space iyswim blocking the idiot it. My brother then went away for 2 weeks and didn't leave his car keys Grin
Our lovely neighbour who didn't have a car let my mum park in her space until the idiot was unblocked 2 weeks later
He never parked in my mums space after that funnily enough Hmm

LeBoob · 10/01/2017 07:24

applauds @cjdamoo very well done!

Oldbutstillgotit · 10/01/2017 07:24

Sitting here wondering how I can keep an eye on this thread while at work.

MirabelleTree · 10/01/2017 07:25

So the US has Trump but on the upside they have adequate parking, I'm learning from this thread. Wonder what Caroline eats for breakfast, hopes she gets on with it..

Pigsbum · 10/01/2017 07:25

Jesus Christ Caroline

MistressMaisie · 10/01/2017 07:28

I'm surprised OP didn't allow carer to park for a few hours a day.
Seems a bit miserable.
I would. Carers are on crap schedules usually and crap pay. I wouldn't make her life harder - assuming it didn't put her out.

StillRabbit · 10/01/2017 07:28

I've got to go to work! I can't access forums on our network at the office.....aaarrrggghhhh......

ItsLikeRainOnYourWeddingDay · 10/01/2017 07:28

Can't.wait.much.longer Blush

BubbleFairy · 10/01/2017 07:29

Shamelessly placemarking now. I need to know Caroline.

Ps can we have a photo when she turns up?

TheMaddHugger · 10/01/2017 07:32

My first car was a Passat. a little orange one from the mid 70's

Fond Memories

Chickenagain · 10/01/2017 07:33

Okay, I am Caroline & I will be back on Saturday. Could you have Penny the Passett valeted for me?

neighbour using my drive when I'm out.
ptumbi · 10/01/2017 07:36

Reading this - when we took my ds2 to uni (first private let house, no parking outside) the neighbour opposite very kindly offered us to use his next-door neighbours drive, as they were away!

I thought nothing of it at the time, and in fact didn't use it, but it was very kind of him, wasn't it? (Lovely northern city with lovely northern folk)
Grin
I'm not caroline BTW

Chippednailvarnishing · 10/01/2017 07:40

Bet Caz is having diet coke and pop tarts for breakfast...

GingerHollyandIvy · 10/01/2017 07:41

If your DH's car is blocking hers, maybe your DH can take your car to work today instead. 😃

wowfudge · 10/01/2017 07:45

Came to check on this. Went straight to the last page to find she didn't come back! Coward. I vote for leaving a car blocking her in. You're ill OP, don't go to work. She will have to knock on to move it.

If she doesn't show, contact your neighbourhood policing team on the non-emergency number. Then can find out who the car is registered to and contact them.

DragonitesRule · 10/01/2017 07:48

Hope in a kind of sadistic way that you're not well enough to go to work todayBlush

WindyCat · 10/01/2017 07:49

Finally caught up, but I've got to do some work now, so I'm just placemarking.