I was out all day today until just now. My dh had said he would take down the tree while l was gone. I left the house at 9 this morning and arrived back to him pulling the bloody tree out of the sitting room, pine needles everywhere, doors all open letting freezing air in. AIBU to think he had the whole day to do it and it's so annoying to come home to a mess. I called him to say l would be home in 30 mins. Seems like that was when he began to pull it apart. He is in a huff now as he thought ld be delighted he was getting in done. Would you find this annoying?