sorry - I can't find a spot to chat about holidays with a 4 1/2 year old. We want to take her abroad for the first time this year but I am really struggling to know where to go - because of ISIS etc I am quite apprehensive about going to mainland Europe (I just am uneasy, not like me at all, can't explain it) so have been looking at the islands - we were looking at maybe all inclusive but I think maybe b&b or self catering would be better then we have the freedom to wander off - I also want to spend less than £1000 on the holiday if possible, jet2holidays have lots of free child places which brings the cost in at around £800 for all 3 of us - does this seem good? Are we better off booking flights & a hotel separately though? Sorry but we have always stayed in the UK and I normally only travel abroad on work trips so that is always all prebooked for me - any advice gratefully received. Incidentally we can go in term time too as school have basically said the reception kids can have a week off so we want to take advantage of this, looking to go in June when school is starting to wind down for the summer hols