I woke up before him this morning, let the dogs out and got on with icing the cakes I baked last night.
He came downstairs a while later, barely said a word, wrote his mum's card and announced he was going over to hers to do presents now because she doesn't want to do them with her BIL(DH's uncle)'s family on Boxing Day.
I asked why we couldn't just do them before we go to the uncle's house, and he said he was supposed to go last night, so he needs to go this morning. He's still not back, so I'm just eating the cake scraps 
and watching crappy TV with the dogs.
We decided not to do presents for each other this year, so not missing out on that, but I'm really annoyed he has just left to go and see his mum without me. I would have happily gone over once we were properly up and showered, before we head over to my DM's for the day, but we always do one day at each family, and have never gone over to the other family in the morning.
I'm not BU, am I? Or am I?