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AIBU?

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AIBU? I probably am but...

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OdinsLoveChild · 07/12/2016 12:59

A big community Christmas event was planned by a group I volunteer with. The person organising it had to pull out half way through due to ill health, the tickets had been printed and posters sorted etc so just to keep the whole event going I volunteered to step in and finish the organising.

I had to find a new venue because the original one had been cancelled following the departure of the other organiser, they had also cancelled the caterers and entertainment. I have had to organise all this again for the same date and I have paid for it myself to be refunded once the tickets are all sold.

The AIBU bit is I have just had an email from another volunteer (selling tickets and putting up posters type help) who has said that because I hadn't paid for my reserved tickets by the last date stipulated (Monday) she has now sold them. I know she allocated herself free tickets (as agreed previously) but she has sold my tickets because I hadn't paid Angry .
If I'm honest with you I hadn't actually expected to pay for my tickets myself as I have paid for the venue, catering and entertainment out of my own pocket to be reimbursed later but its still money I cannot spend until its repaid. We had a certain number allocated to be given away free for volunteers of which she has allocated me none. And now the event will go ahead without me being there. All tickets are now sold and I cant go because of the fire regulations regarding numbers at the venue.

I'm feeling a bit pissed off about it all. I think Old mardy pants (Other volunteer) has deliberately sold my tickets so she can tell everyone she organised it all herself.

SO go on then AIBU for thinking I should have had free tickets like the other volunteers? AIBU for thinking she deliberately sold my tickets so I didn't show her up on the dance floor? For the record I will never be doing this again. Sad

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DailyFail1 · 09/12/2016 23:41

Cancel all the payments. Let her explain why the event was cocked up

ItsNiceItsDifferentItsUnusual · 10/12/2016 05:57

Good for you! Although what's Mardy Pants problem with you?!

Damselindestress · 10/12/2016 09:12

So glad it all worked out and you got the recognition for all your hard work. I wouldn't do it in future though, let mardy pants deal with all the pressure if she wants to claim the credit!

JerryFerry · 10/12/2016 09:20

Fab update, well done OP. Now you must PROMISE that you must never allow anyone else to treat you like that again

OdinsLoveChild · 10/12/2016 11:12

ItsNiceItsDifferentItsUnusual Mardy pants doesn't like me because my DH locked up her DH for drink driving instead of locking up real criminals Hmm

JerryFerry I promise I won't let anyone do that to me again Blush

Next year I'm not helping.....well I wasn't helping this year either so maybe it's too soon to comment Confused

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ItsNiceItsDifferentItsUnusual · 10/12/2016 11:27

Blimey! Shock

FrancisCrawford · 10/12/2016 11:49

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Soubriquet · 10/12/2016 12:16

Oh well done OP

Glad things went just right

MothertotheLordsofmisrule · 10/12/2016 12:23

Glad it all went off well.

And the champers was a nice 'up yours' to mardy pants.Grin

ThisThingCalledLife · 10/12/2016 18:29

I also bagged myself a bottle of champers in the raffle which apparently 'Mardy Pants' wanted to win by purchasing a dozen tickets

That's karma for her! Xmas Grin

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