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Breast cancer results tomorrow, scared witless

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WorriedWife2016 · 21/11/2016 16:23

So seven months ago hubbie left,after 25 yr together
He now has stopped contact with kids both teens
Two weeks after he left dad had radical cancer surgery needing lots of care
Fast forward to October I got invited for a mamogram as a routine sepcreening of woman between 47/50
I was scared when I got called back last week
They found a lump
Took biopsy and loads of other mammograms
I go back for results tomorrow
I feel sick as a dog and scared stiff
What the hell am I going to do if it's cancer😢😢😢how can I tell the kids they have been through so much already.i feel like I have literally got the weight of the world on my shoulders to top it all off dad went for more surgery last week with even more planned ....daughter due in hossi for tonsillectomy on Friday and hubbie is just being absolutely feckless and not making contact or signing anything off for the divorce 😩😩😩

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lljkk · 22/11/2016 21:00

Every time you worry about something, write it down as a question to ask next appt. Then bring the list of Qs with you. Else you won't remember all those Qs next appt. They can't give you perfect answers, but there are parts of this experience you can take control of all the same.

WorriedWife2016 · 23/11/2016 07:57

Lljkk thanks I will ask about it on Friday
Cake...nothing would make me happier, I am so proud of my kids they really don't deserve this shit

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goddessofsmallthings · 24/11/2016 18:03

Flowers Hoping your daughter's tonsillectomy went well today, Worried, and that you'll both enjoy tucking into an assortment of delicious ice creams over the weekend. Smile

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