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To think I've done bugger all wrong here

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Truckingalong · 09/11/2016 09:00

2 people. I'm friends with both. They know each other exists but were not friends and had never met. 1 friend has a vacancy working for her. Asks me if friend 2 would like other job. I say I don't know but will ask. Friend 2 delighted, says yes, goes for semi-informal interview, gets the job. Several weeks later, it's all gone tits up. Friend 2 is not doing a good job and they've parted company. Friend 1, whilst not actually blaming me outright, has sent me numerous texts outlining every last failing of friend 2. She's also now said she's found someone else who's great and was recommended by another friend who's really meticulous with high standards (sub-text is I'm not!!!!). Friend 2 is now not speaking to me AT ALL. How has it come to this? How the eff did I end up the bad guy here. I've never worked with friend 2, I didn't recommended her and had no idea she would be crap at the job. Are all my friends being unreasonable or is it me ffs?

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Arfarfanarf · 09/11/2016 13:43

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OohNoDooEy · 09/11/2016 13:47

I would send them both a message that they can both see.

Hi Both

I am sorry that you working together did not work out. I would appreciate you both remembering that I did not suggest a working relationship between you and simply passed on the message. I am still friends with the both of you and hope that we can all rise above all of this.

See you soon
OP

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