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To think too many people on MN are too quick to call 'fake'

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user1471524661 · 29/10/2016 17:27

I was reading and contributing to the post about the new husband whose wife has found his disgusting stag videos. I read contribution after contribution saying 'if this is real', 'troll', etc. And one particularly asshole post which simply said 'reported' like the poster was some sort of stepford wife keeping her community in check. None of us actually know whether it was real because, well, this is the internet. But who gives anyone the right to assume something isn't? Just because you, soneone you know, or in this case, your husband hasn't done (or been caught doing) it, doesn't mean it doesn't happen. I know someone who this almost exact thing happened to her.

So stop the troll hunting! And get a life.

And shame on MN for deleting within 5 mins of report in favour of the reporter.

OP posts:
Saucery · 29/10/2016 17:50

I do think it's a bit mean not to let people choose a nn when they sign up then be picky about choosing one that 'reflects a bit more of their personality' Grin

AVirginLitTheCandle · 29/10/2016 17:50

Well in the OP's defense there have been a couple of genuine posters over the years who were incorrectly labelled trolls by MNHQ and subsequently banned and threads/posts zapped.

It happened to me once although I did get in touch with MNHQ who quickly reinstated my account. Although they didn't reinstated my thread that was deleted which was probably a good thing going from some of the responses I had on it.

However I'd imagine it's pretty rare tbh. I would say that 99% of posters identified as trolls by MNHQ are indeed trolls*

*Disclaimer - jmo of course. I haven't conducted any studies into the matter to come to that conclusion Grin

GiddyOnZackHunt · 29/10/2016 17:51

But tis a TAAT still Olivia?

AVirginLitTheCandle · 29/10/2016 17:52

Hello Olivia Smile

Is this thread going to disappear now?

Arfarfanarf · 29/10/2016 17:52

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user1471524661 · 29/10/2016 17:53

Is there an acronym checker around here? 😄

OP posts:
ThymeLord · 29/10/2016 17:53

I reported it. It was very obviously a troll.

GiddyOnZackHunt · 29/10/2016 17:54

Yes. Can't remember where though.

AVirginLitTheCandle · 29/10/2016 17:55

That is why so many posts that are clearly trolls stay because the evidence they feel they need is missing.

It's a bit like a criminal trial at times, isn't it?

Unless we can prove beyond reasonable doubt that you're a troll then you get to stay. You're effectively not guilty of trolling unless we can prove you are Wink

Arfarfanarf · 29/10/2016 17:56

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AVirginLitTheCandle · 29/10/2016 17:56

Is there an acronym checker around here?

There's one somewhere.

Cherryskypie · 29/10/2016 17:56

TSSDNCOP

The Secret Service does not comment on procedure. It's a West Wing quote.

Laiste · 29/10/2016 17:56

lifeissweet Sat 29-Oct-16 17:43:57 - So watch a bit longer and you will see trolls all over the bloody shop.

How long? HOW LONG PLEASE??!!!!

8 damn years i've been here, every friggin day, and i still can't spot them!

DesolateWaist · 29/10/2016 17:57

Please get a proper user name.

AVirginLitTheCandle · 29/10/2016 17:57

Acronyms

AVirginLitTheCandle · 29/10/2016 17:58

Oops, x post Blush

But yes get a proper NN.

PresidentOliviaMumsnet · 29/10/2016 18:04

our troll policy
And yes, we probably ought to nix this based purely on the TAAT basis
But that said, there are some helpful posts here for other newbies
Hope you're all looking forward to your extra hour of MNing

AVirginLitTheCandle · 29/10/2016 18:06

Hope you're all looking forward to your extra hour of MNing

Is someone getting banned in an hour?

SamhainSoubriquet · 29/10/2016 18:16

No! Clocks go back tonight

hobnobsaremyfavourite · 29/10/2016 18:16

Blimey if MNHQ deleted every thread that was reported this place would be
They deleted it cos it was a troll (like about90%of threads on here these days Hmm)

SetPhasersTaeMalkie · 29/10/2016 18:17

The clocks go back an hour tonight.

WhereDoesThisRoadGo · 29/10/2016 18:18

Username changed after a bit of searching. Hope that's better.

Thanks for acronym list - TAAT makes sense now and it won't happen again.

And thanks to MNHQ for being trusting of my intentions here.

AVirginLitTheCandle · 29/10/2016 18:21

Clocks go back tonight

Oh.

Blush
Laiste · 29/10/2016 18:28

That properly made me lol AVirgin Grin

it's exactly the sort of daft thing i'd ask

OvariesForgotHerPassword · 29/10/2016 18:31

I think most of the time intuition is spot on, but I do remember that time when someone posted about a premature baby who passed away, they were banned for trolling but then they were on TV and it turned out that they were falsely accused of trolling? that sticks in my mind although now I'm wondering if I dreamed it?

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